LinkedIn and the loss of your soul

I sometimes wonder.. I am caught in a situation where I need to be active on LinkedIn. I thought I’d never have to. I swore I’d never do it, but then I changed carĂ©er path and I’m more or less required to have a profile there. So now I have sold a part of my […]

Your life as art!

Sometimes, hmm, probably mostly after the children have gone to bed – I will ponder life. (No time for that during daytime). I mean, during my day-to-day-life, there isn’t much mystery to it. You do the same thing everyone else does. Get up, wake the children up, try and coax them into getting dressed, eating […]

Freedom

I used to be pretty clingy to any partner when I was younger. If I were dating someone, I’d be very quick to lock the thing down into a steady relationship. This has changed for me these last years. A bad marriage was what changed it for me. Rushing into a relationship, without really letting […]

Porn!

This year, one thing I’m very happy about is that I stopped watching porn. I’ve been wanting to do that for over ten years, but I just never found enough motivation. Now, I’m not christian, or coming at it from some sort of sexual shame or anything. But I just did not like the numbing […]

The most romantic thing ever

It must have been around two years ago. I was looking to buy a car on facebook’s marketplace. I had found one some five hours away, everything sounded good and I was planning on going there to buy it. But then I just remembered that I never asked about the last time the oil was […]

Divorced! (the big blessing of 2025)

This is easily the best year in a long long time. It should have happened a long time ago, but it didn’t because I thought love could be saved even though it was obviously beyond repair. Well it happened, and jesus christ, it’s been the best damn thing ever. When you start out sort of […]

Authenticity!

Yeah, inauthenticity drains me, just as it drains everyone else. Not that anyone will read it lol, but this site will be free of ads. I mean, that makes sense also since no one will read it. But I will make it cookie free if I can too. Just because. I dont want any analytics […]

Hello World!

My very first post on my very own website. Cool! I’m planning on using this website as a way to explore my own creativity, thoughts and ideas. I seldom express my own inner world to other people, being an introvert and all. Well, by not expressing myself that much, I sometimes wonder if I can […]